Light and Darkness - Holy Week

. The image on the right demonstrates how contrast and comparison exceed what can be accomplished by placing light and darkness side by side.  Just showing light or just showing darkness is less evocative.  Placing them together exceeds what either light or darkness by themselves can effectively communicate.  So it is with metaphor.  The words, "Then I saw that wisdom excels folly as light excels darkness" (Ecclesiastes 2:13) demonstrates how the metaphor of light and darkness along side wisdom and folly provides the reader with an "excess."  For many Christians this Holy Week is a time when the movement from light (Palm Sunday) to darkness (Maundy Thursday and Good Friday) to the brilliant light of Easter creates an excess of meaning. 

Bagels

Given the local discussion of bagels especially around the superb bagels at Wide World of Bagels http://www.wideworldofbagels.com/ I thought people might be interested in the article in ConsumerReports May 2012 pp 8-9 that gives a rating of national brand's of bagels.  Therefore our own WWB is not included.  It would be interesting to see if people agree with the definition of a "proper bagel."  Of course taste is a relative matter.  I will stick with WWB.  Bring on the bagels. 

(Note: I wonder if ConsumerReports realized that they could not be objective since the second letter in their name as depicted on the magazine and online is a bagel.  Just a little fun for Monday morning.)

Religious Holidays

 

Jews and Christians prepare for important religious celebrations.  Is it possible to fully celebrate these individual remembrances as well as recollecting what holds all humanity together?  We sometimes pit our own religious perspectives against the common good without realizing that much of the time these differences can contribute to the common good.  Our other complication is that we sometimes see that our religious perspectives are the only one's that foster the common good.  I would like to commit myself to identifying ways to work with people of all faiths, and even those who find faith commitments to be an impediment, to build a more just just society.    

Share your ideas and actions about ways we can both build stronger personal commitments while vigorously working with all peoples. 

Community Values

Has the Mystic community identified the values that drive our interests?  I am sure there must be some core values that have resided in the hearts and minds of residents.  Have they changed or evolved? 

Every time a budget, corporate or individual, is set one expresses their core values.  In the recent discussions about libraries, ambulances, and public education funding we are expressing our values. 

Have we fostered discussions with individuals and groups about how their core values match or challenge some of the longstanding core values?  Let's enter an online discussion among Mystic residents, our neighboring citizens, and for that matter any community that is discussing community values.

The Journeys of Our Lives - Presentation and Discussion

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Simplicity and Law 8 on Trust

John Maeda in The Laws of Simplicity (The MIT Press, 2006) tells about learning to swim as an adult. Swimming was not easy until he learned one simple experience. He relates the way his unorthodox swimming instructor taught.  He says the instructor spent most of his time telling him to "lean back" and trust the water.

I kept waiting to learn how to swim, but in the meantime became more comfotable just leaning back or bending forward in the water.  A formative moment occurred when he (the instructor) told us to go ahead and flap our arms and feet, and suddenly I was swimming!  I realized I could always swim--I just didn't trust the water.

He thought of this experience when he visited Bang and Olufsen, the high styled designer of electronic equipment.  They did not focus on the quality of sound but the "quality of leaning back."  Bang and Olufson needs to know about sound but the sound also needs to know about the listener.  

Trust is simple or is it complex? 

Listening Takes Courage



The story is told of the newspaper ad during the great depression.  A young man saw a "help wanted" ad for a telegraph operator. He had studied Morse code at home while he was unemployed, but he had no experience. And his heart sank as he joined a room full of way too many other men seeking the same job.  Not unlike our times where unemployment is so high.

The young man found a chair and sank into it, already feeling dejected because so many people were there for the interview.  After only a few minutes, however, the young man’s face suddenly brightened, he jumped up out of his chair and ran into the interviewer’s office. Within a few minutes the interviewer who was the manager appeared at his door with the young man to announce that the job had been filled.

Everyone was shocked and disappointed.  One of the men who had been the first to arrive and had waited the longest time asked with great indignation, "What did he say that landed him the job?  After all, he was the last one here." The manager answered in a calm manner, "It was nothing he said. All morning long I have been tapping out a message on my office window in Morse code. It was loud enough for all of you to hear. The message was this: 'If you can understand this message, come on in. You're hired.' All of you heard the noise. He was the only one who listened to the message."

Listening is a simple task but we make it very complicated.  Here are some ways to improve our listening.  What actions can you add to the list?

·        Don’t think the other person doesn’t understand.  The problem may reside inside us. 

·        Ask for clarifications don’t be too eager to respond. You may have transformed the comment into something you would have said.

·        State in your own words what you think you heard the other person say. 

·        Have courage, listening takes nerve.